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As sad as it is there are limitless numbers of child abuse survivor stories that can be shared world wide. Hearing them, especially as a first hand account, can be extremely difficult. In each individual story there is something of value to be learned. The ability to rise above such treatment often inspires others to work on their own healing. Children have limited physical and emotional defenses. There were many scars left behind by an abusive adult, but often the ones that run the deepest are the lessons learned about self love and worth during that time.

Perhaps that is why those who have survived utterly grueling childhoods are able to find confidence and love in the world as adults. What children learn from an abusive adult is anger. Anger leads to many unpleasant things, including hate. Most children find it easier to turn that hate around on themselves. It is as though the application of negative emotion would inspire a kid to make the situation stop.

Many surviving adults have spent some time losing their way in order to lose their memories. The available substances that are tried never work. Eventually the now grown victim runs out of road and must turn back. The emotional journey to return is littered with those memories that were never forgotten. They just wanted to be resting in peace.

While most people who have survived childhoods like this do eventually question the motives of the one who inflicted such damage. It is never really clear why some people turn into monsters and others turn into angels. It is a powerful choice to have. Previous abusive situations usually end up with the abusive adult refraining from the same type of consequence.

Some people never learned they have to love themselves in order to love another. There is an obvious need to control someone, and the willingness to use the means to get that impression across. Children are less likely to be compliant individuals under such circumstances. They are the unfortunate subject of angry outbursts basically because they are children.

Those who have come through on the other side serve as an amazing inspiration to those that are just now coming out of that dark place. It is a long journey to go from recovering to open and loving, and it is especially difficult to try to do it alone. It is not easy to put the damaging actions of another into words, but once the words are released a new cleansing of the spirit can begin.

At some point, the surviving adult has to figure out how to move on and be a productive member of society. The past is already sealed, and mentally living in it does not recreate it. Many children grew up in such environments that they did not even realize that what was happening was wrong. Realizing this as an adult is often like living it over again through victimized eyes. This is why moving forward and living in the present can be so difficult.

Sharing child abuse survivor stories actually help to improve the chances for the next surviving adult. Each story has some sort of relevancy to the abusive adult, but eventually the gift of letting go into a healing space is much more important. With supportive communities more surviving adults could continue their journey of true healing.